Think Before You Speak

M. Keith Ballard
Senior Grand Deacon

Whether‎ it‎ be‎ a‎ do‎ it‎ yourself‎ project,‎ ‎ a‎ major‎ construction‎ undertaking,‎ or ‎ just‎ a‎ small‎ carpentry‎ job,‎ it‎ doesn’t‎ take‎ long‎ to‎ learn‎ the‎ valuable‎ lesson‎ of‎ “measure‎ twice,‎ cut‎ once”.‎  This‎ is‎ an‎ important‎ lesson‎ to‎ learn‎ in‎ being‎ more‎ efficient‎ and‎ insuring‎ that‎ not‎ as‎ many‎ mistakes‎ are‎ made.

This‎ can‎ also‎ be applied‎ to‎ our‎ every‎ day‎ lives‎ by‎ realizing‎ that‎ careful‎ consideration‎ should‎ be‎ taken‎ before‎ we‎ speak.‎ Speaking‎ is‎ the‎ most‎ common‎ form‎ of‎ communication‎ between‎ people.‎ Careful‎ consideration‎ should‎ be‎ taken‎ to‎ measure‎ in‎ our‎ consciousness‎ how‎ the‎ spoken‎ word‎ will‎ be‎ interpreted‎ by‎ those‎ to‎ whom‎ we‎ are‎ speaking.‎ “Consider‎ twice,‎ speak‎ once”.‎ ‎

Our‎ organization‎ places‎ a‎ great‎ emphasis‎ on‎ Brotherly‎ Love,‎ ‎ therefore,‎ it‎ is‎ our‎ duty‎ to‎ be‎ more‎ discerning‎ and‎ caring‎ when‎ speaking‎ to‎ all‎ others,‎ more‎ especially‎ to‎ a‎ brother‎ mason.

The‎ old‎ adage,‎ sticks‎ and‎ stones‎ may‎ break‎ my‎ bones,‎ but‎ words‎ will‎ never‎ hurt‎ me‎ is‎ NOT‎ NECESSARILY‎ TRUE!‎ We‎ should‎ all‎ realize‎ the‎ fact‎ that‎ once‎ words‎ are‎ spoken‎ they‎ can‎ be‎ forgiven,‎ but‎ they‎ will‎ seldom‎ be‎ forgotten.‎ If‎ care‎ is‎ taken‎ to‎ think‎ carefully‎ before‎ we‎ speak‎ the‎ necessity‎ to “forgive‎ and‎ forget”‎ can‎ be‎ avoided.‎ This‎ one‎ small‎ effort‎ on‎ our‎ part‎ will‎ help‎ the‎ “honor,‎ glory,‎ and‎ reputation‎ of‎ our‎ Institution‎ be‎ firmly‎ established‎ and‎ the‎ world‎ at‎ large‎ convinced‎ of‎ its‎ good‎ effects.”

Fraternally‎ submitted,
M.‎ Keith Ballard
Senior Grand Deacon, Grand Lodge of MS